Saturday, November 15, 2008

Manifesting in the Aftermath

First off, I'm still in the house and with my wife, even after the conversations that led to the last post. The storm passed and the light began to shine through and with a little positive energy and appropriate manifesting, it will stay that way.

Looking over the situation, it is clear that part of the problem is me. I come to that "ah ha" revelation after reading Jeannette Maw's Good Vibe Blog. If her blog is not part of your regular reading, click the link and visit. Ms. Maw is a Law of Attraction life coach and has managed to help me on numerous occasions even though we've never spoken to each other or met. I will say that, at several critical times, her blog posts have an uncanny way of providing me inspiration at a time when I need it most. Read her and you'll see what I mean.

In this post, she went over three Law of Attraction Truths that she resisted and I found myself nodding my head until I said "ah ha" into the air. She writes about acceptance and I have found this to be the easiest truth of the Law of Attraction to forget. There are times that I am so focused on changing a situation that I neglect to accept what's happening. When I "need" to change something, I'm already setting up resistance. When I "needed" for my wife to stop being so negative about me, I did not accept that she was feeling that emotion. I should have embraced my love for her, which is always there. If I don't do that, there is no way I can begin to change the situation.

Another truth she wrote about it the fact that we do this at all times. Every moment sets up the future moment and when I let those negative emotions well up within me, I was holding on to them, therefore setting up further resistance, rather than reacting from my gratitude space. When I let depression, despair and rage fill inside me, even though I didn't let them out into the world, I let them fill up valuable real estate in my mind that I should have been using to feel the deep abiding gratitude that normally encompasses me from inside out. By letting those emotions fill me up, all I was doing was attracting those emotions from my wife. That's the basic Law of Attraction. Like attracts like and what I was doing at that moment was attracting depression, despair and rage from her.

And now that I've been reminded, if I find myself in a similar situation, I'll will concentrate on my gratitude attitude and hopefully get back what I'm putting out. After all, like attracts like.

1 comments:

Good Vibe Coach said...

Wow, kudos to you, Tim, for allowing this insight in! I couldn't agree more when you say it's the easiest truth of the Law of Attraction to forget.

I'm glad we have good company in each other, and that we're creating new awarenesses now!

Thanks so much for your inspiring post, and for letting me part of it!